Whether you were hurt by a spouse, parent, sibling, intimate partner, a stranger, or someone else, let’s stop the victim-blaming and shaming. All it does is revictimize those who have been harmed by pedophiles, predator pastors, rapists, child abusers, narcissists, toxic siblings, stalkers, bullies, and violent perpetrators.
It does not matter how old you were, what you wore, what you said, where you were at, or even what you may have drank. Despite the false beliefs in the rape culture, with domestic violence, and the narcissist community, we must shatter the myths. They only aim to censor you. To silence you. To keep you in turmoil.
Repeat after me: It’s not my fault. (Remind yourself every single day.)
Please understand that the shame is the abusers. The responsibility remains with the toxic person who had intentionally hurt you.
YOU DID NOT DESERVE:
Child neglect & abuse
It’s not your fault. You did NOT attract an abuser into your life. They preyed on you. They used covert schemes to deceive you. They violated you!
For those who are empaths, Highly Sensitive People, or compassionate, never ever permit someone to dull your shine. You radiate within! You are a beautiful soul.
Stay true to yourself. Be who you were designed to become. You have a divine purpose. You have remarkable traits that make our world such a better place.
You didn’t deserve to be hurt. Today, release the chains that keep you in bondage. It’s not your shame to carry. You do deserve to heal. 💜
#CSA #NPD #Abuse #PTSD #Bullying #Betrayal #Rape #VictimBlaming #MeToo #NarcissisticAbuse
#Trauma #Gaslighting #VictimShaming #Healing